These missives are an opportunity for connection. If your children don’t want them, that’s up to them, but give them the choice• Every week Annalisa Barbieri addresses a family-related problem sent in by a readerWe are in our mid-80s and have been together for 12 years.Our relationship journeys to our meeting point were utterly different. My partner has two marriages behind her as well as a long-term partner. Mine was a marriage of over 40 years. My partner and I were colleagues for many years... Read this story